This past weekend was one of those weekends where you wake up Monday morning feeling you totally took advantage of the weekend’s purpose – to relax, be silly, watch football, and eat chips while vegging in your pjs.
On Friday, Jon and I took Mario to the hockey game. Maria had to make the executive decision on whether to go to Kids Night Out at school or to the game with us. It was a brutal decision because she had her girlfriend asking if she was coming to Kids Night Out but she had her dad going to the hockey game. She LOVES hanging with her dad lately, especially when it’s dad and mom and Mario (she is the pack dog). But, ultimately a brief description of the hockey game (watching boys skate on ice and try to hit a puck in a goal) led her to choose Kids Night Out with popcorn, grape juice, friends and a movie. The pack dog strays when there is food and entertainment….
Mario loved the hockey game. He ate his favorite food – a hot dog – and watched the players skate along the ice and hit each other up against the wall. Jon and I thought he might enjoy that activity more than he did since he is all into fighting. Rather, he enjoyed hanging on the railing and talking to the older boys behind us in the box. He also enjoyed the cheerleaders…. We left the game during the third quarter and picked up Maria. It seems that every time I see her at school, she is even older and more independent. She reminds me of me when I was in fourth and fifth grade (probably like when I was in first grade, too, but I can’t remember that time at all!) hanging out with my girl posse. When I picked her up, she was laughing with her three girlfriends and they were falling all over each other. Too cute.
On Saturday, we headed to Hamilton Parker to find tile for our bathroom. The kids ran around checking out the showroom showers and the kids’ room while Jon and I talked to the sales guy. Maria explained where everything was in the showroom since she had come to the store with me back in September. “Buddy, the kids’ room is over here and it has a tv.” Mario’s response: “Will the tv have Godzilla?” Maria’s reply: “We’ll see buddy and if it doesn’t, we”ll find something else for you.” The way she calls him “buddy” makes our hearts melt. After Hamilton Parker, we headed to BW-3’s for some wings and nachos. Nothin’ like a healthy lunch. We waddled out to the front of the restaurant and the kids begged to play a game. They put a dollar in a chicken and egg machine and each of them got a plastic egg. Maria scored a tattoo and Mario scored a little orange plastic cone that had the words “Back away slowly.” I read it to Mario and he laughed “I know, mom and dad, I am going to put this in my room and when you walk in, you will have to walk back slowly.”
We headed to the pet store in the late afternoon to torture ourselves by holding sweet little precious pups that needed a home. Maria always picks the most docile puppies that love to be held. She sits in the little room with them caressing and talking to them. Mario hangs out at the hamster bin trying to put the hamsters on the exercise wheel or in the tire. They run from him like he is death. Mario does not have quite the touch with the pups like Maria does. He likes to put them on the ground and watch them run around and play. If they don’t move much, he picks another. I can usually handle about 45 minutes in that store because it is such a madhouse of people but I made it an hour on Saturday. When we left, Maria begged to go on Sunday.
On Sunday, I skipped yoga because Maria and Mario begged me to stay home. We ate cereal and read books. Maria and I went on a stroller ride to the store to get pencils for her class project – a timeline of her life – all 6 years. We headed out to Dirty Franks for lunch (yeah, two for two on the healthy lunch front for the weekend!). When we returned, the kids and I took a bike ride to the library to grab some movies and new books. Maria and I watched Mario ahead of us – his little legs pushing the clunky wheels of his tricycle. He wants so badly to lead the group but usually Maria cannot help but bolt ahead because she is on a two-wheeler bike and can’t easily slow down without falling off. But I held onto her on this bike ride so Mario could take the lead and he was one proud puppy. When an older lady passed him, he stopped and said hello to her. When we stopped at the library, he said “Mom, an old lady said hi to me and I said hi to her back. I stopped my bike and everything. Are you proud of me?”
We headed to Kroger’s before the Super Bowl and Maria and I stocked up on chips and dip. Maria was grabbing all sorts of dips and chips for our party arguing that “it is the Super Bowl – we had to have a real party!” When we got home, we turned on the Super Bowl and watched all of the commercials. We all sat on the couch together – Mario on Jon’s arm playing Leapster, Maria in between Jon and me. She loved it. She kept saying “I love cuddling with my mom and dad and brother.” We have got to start up family movie nights. Maria fell asleep with 30 seconds left of the Super Bowl. Mario remained wide awake playing his Leapster Ben Ten game. I dragged him upstairs with me to hit the sack, and we were both out cold in three minutes flat.